I have had the guts to tell a friend of mine about my last month tryst with destiny and so-called love life.
She has had enough experience to issue certain guidelines and has decided to act a consultant (self-proclaimed good consultant) that she proudly believes she is.. :-)
I would henceforth denote the protagonists as HE/HIM and SHE/HER.
Lessons learnt in the past week -:
- SHE expects more in the initial days of courtship. Call her more even if HE has to subside his male ego.
As simple as that , if HE feels like calling , do so unhesitatingly.
- do not get on the bad side of her.. if SHE is down for some reason.. give HER the time.. that is the best thing to do. Else HE would end up in dire straits for taking the blame to HIMself.
- HE needs to learn to view things more from HER perspective. Patience is the key to all locks in a kindling relationship :)